Overcoming the fear of hurting someone!

If you are a decent human being and you spent some (quality) time with another person, you should obviously have some emotional attachments (the good kind hopefully)! Unless off course, you are one of these lucky bastards who don’t give a shit; In that case, skip this whole blog! However, keep in mind that if you are already thinking about taking flight 666 out of hell, you already made up your mind that the shit you are in, ain’t working! So, by postponing the inevitable it does not do you or the other person any good. Do not worry! You will both survive! So, here is a simple recipe…. Be nice and tell the truth no matter what it is. Do it in a nice and soft way, and lower your voice volume as much as possible. Use the sandwich method of bad news; say something nice, spread the meat, and then close with something nice! For example use something like this … “Honey, you are one of the most wonderful people that I have met in my life, but as you and I know, this relationship is not working out. This is not good for me, but most importantly, it does not look like it is good for you either, and I am concern more about you than I. So, because I would like us to stay friends and not damage our friendship we should move on. I will miss you because you are such a great person.” This is when you hug and kiss! But once you are on that “flight”, do not answer the phone or emails for the next two weeks. If you do, you will be sucked right back in! Good luck…. Try it… let us know how it goes….

Fear

The biggest obstacle for moving on is Fear! Conquer your Fears!

The Methodology of The Moving On Club

We will try to employ as many resources as possible to help our readers move on from the shit they are stuck on! This will include various manuals, exercises, expert professionals, story telling, as well as eventually provide physical support for people who might not have the resources which will allow them to move on. Our readers are encouraged to make any contributions they might think that could be helpful to attain our goals. This idea could evolve in some sort of franchising, face to face meetings, or a different format which could facilitate the support each person might need to let go and move on.

Vision of The Moving On Club....

The purpose of this club is to help people who are stuck in shit, to move on. The idea came to me while taking a shower this morning. I was thinking that every human being that I know is stuck in some unpleasant situation from which they cannot, or are not willing to, or they do not feel good about getting out of it. I believe that fear is the biggest emotion which holds people hostage in shitty situations. Some people fear that they will hurt someone, some others fear that there might a retaliation against them if they move on, and some others fear that if they move on the new situation they will get into might be worst. There is also the feeling of entitlement; for example, if someone is in a relationship they might fear that by moving on, someone else will "move in" and they will loose their "privilages" over that person. Can you imagine to have the ability to forget everything about the past and master the strength, the will, and the psychological framework which will allow you to just move on with a happy smile on your face? The purpose of this group will be to provide any kind of support possible which will help people to move on! Come join the club!